7 techniques to make him feel for you at second date

7 techniques to make him feel for you at second date

It is natural to wish to go out with a person you love. However, it is all about connection and destiny that feeling of each other, timing, and other conditions should be organized to actually go out with that person.

How many people are in the world? It is almost like a miracle to find the only person for you. Which means, to be a couple has a meaning.

Anyway, your encounter is not going to be successful if a person is not interested in you. And you can’t find the best person for you if you don’t meet anybody. Therefore, I will tell you 7 secret techniques to make a person feel for you at the second date, to make it a first step to have a loving partner.



7 techniques to make him feel for you at second date

 

-Go to popular date destinations


The first date is just meeting, and what is really important is the second date when you start judging if you are good partner for each other. It is important to make an enjoyable memory of the dating.

If so, you might feel uplifted and think about making it a memorable dating in life, or preparing something surprising. Wait and think about it.

Honestly speaking, the best thing to meet your criteria is the ordinary, popular date destinations. Zoo or aquarium, not anything special or not a difficult place to go, but an ordinary dating course is recommended.

Zoo is a fun place for both men and women, just looking at cute animals will make you relax. Aquarium is more recommended as you can enjoy comfortable date in a hot summer day.

Going to see a movie is another recommendation. 2 hours is perfect length of time as a main event of dating. Just be aware that you should decide what to see beforehand.

For eating, casual restaurants or stylish cafes are appropriate, as is same for the first date. It depends on your partner, but if you feel like relaxing and talk more, place for driking is also recommended.

If the atmosphere is good, typical drinking bars or other favorite places for your partner is also recommended.

 

-1 to 2 weeks between first and second date is the best


When the first date is successfully done, you need to plan for second date. To understand each other, second date is a big turning point.

It is no problem to plan second date soon, but 1 to 2 weeks after first date is said to be the best. Before he/she forgets about first date, you should ask for next date.

3 weeks is at the longest, ask him/her out again. To begin with, I would recommend you to send a message after first date, within that day. “Thank you, it was fun today” is good enough.

And after 2 to 3 days later, ask a person out again “The last date was enjoyable. Would you go out with me again?”

For example, recall information you got from first date and say “You said you like watching movies. I heard the new movie is very good, so how about going to see it together?” or “You like animals, don’t you? I’ve not been to a zoo for a while. Would you go with me?”.

 

-Get closer mentally and physically


First date is just “wait-and-see”. Which means, it is a step to know about each other. You are studying about each other to see whether you are just friends or can be partners, while spending short time together in a cafe or a restaurant.

Then what is the purpose for second date? In a second date, you start to judge whether you can be a good romantic partner for each other. Therefore a second date is very important.

It is not too much to say that the impression of a person is determined at a second date. He/she will imagine how it is going to be like to go out with you from a content of a second date. Vaguely, he/she imagines about the near future, so it is important to make a good impression about you.

You don’t need to act like a real romantic partner at this point yet. What I mean here is that you should drop a gentle hint about what is good about going out with you.

To make a physical contact, holding hands is effective. It is to make a person aware of you as a romantic partner, can be a sign for a next date, and you can judge his/her feeling by the reaction.

 

-Make it a relaxing date


One of the important things in second date is to relax. I think the most imporatant thing in date is whether you can be who you are.

Trying to show yourself better and cool in front of a partner just makes you tired. If you are romantic partners each other, you want relax and releaved.

You can’t avoid being nervous at the first date, but try to relax from a second date.

It may be difficult at first, but it is better to get used to the atmosphere of dating, and show your real self out. Going to a cafe or a park with nice view is also recommended.

 

-Make it an enjoyable date


Needless to say, making a date enjoyable is the must. The good impression remains strongly in a partner’s mind.

Therefore you should make a thorough plan. “Hit or miss” plan, or dating without a plan, or depending everything on your partner from where to go to schedule, can disappoint him/her.

It is important that both of you have fun, so it is important to know beforehand about a partner’s interests.

 

-The key is escorting


Women are likely to be attracted to men who can escort them well.

Of course there are many kinds of women that some think the best dating is when all of their wishes are fulfilled. However, in most cases, men who can treat women as “women” are highly evaluated, and kindness and manliness will be expected as well.

Then how can you escort women well? The important thing is to look-ahead of their wishes and situations. For example, recommend to take a rest after getting tired from walking, or to subtly walk on the driveway side to protect her from cars.

On the other hand, if you are a woman, it is important to let your partner escort you. Men are born to have high self-esteem. They generally favor cute women who let them escort.

It is happy for them to be praised “you are such a kind person”. Men’s self-esteem is fulfilled by being praised by women.

 

-Honestly tell your favorable feeling


What you should be careful here is that instead of just saying “I love you”, telling in more lighter way such as “I like the way you are …”.

Also it is important to ask his/her view on love, or make some effort to feel closer to each other.

By asking what kind of person he/she likes or his/her view on love, you can check whether you can be a good partner or not.

 

Could you find useful tips? Above were the 7 secret techniques to be successful in a second date. I hope you could understand that a second date is important enough to decide the future of two of you.

Whether a man takes advantage, or a woman…what is your dating pattern…it can be said that a second date is enough to influence the way you spend time together.

Also it is important to come up with some conversation topics for a third date. Let’s grab his/her feeling at a second date.

As long as you are not accepted as a candidate for a partner, he/she might have another partner before you ask him/her out again.

 

Summary

7 techniques to make him feel for you at second date

-Go to popular date destinations
-1 to 2 weeks between first and second date is the best
-Get closer mentally and physically
-Make it a relaxing date
-Make it an enjoyable date
-The key is escorting
-Honestly tell your favorable feeling