7 birthday gifts for boys for him to be your boyfriend

7 birthday gifts for boys for him to be your boyfriend

You have been hanging out with him just as one of friends, but suddenly he becomes special for you. You can’t forget his kind words or fresh smile for some reason.

However, it is quite difficult to tell your true feeling to a boy who “used to be” a friend. He might laugh at you if you tell it lightly, and he might try to get funny and say “what’s wrong with you today?” if you tell it in serious way.

If you want some chance to tell your feeling, think about his birthday. What is the best gift to make him happy as well as to tell your feeling? Let’s think about 7 gifts for boys to make him your boyfriend.



7 birthday gifts for boys for him to be your boyfriend

 

-Something memorial for 20th birthday


If he turns 20, the age to be considered as an adult, why don’t you choose something memorable?

Liquor bottle with his name can be a good one. Another popular and easy to use item is a mug with his name. You can give him a towel with his name, if he loves sports.

Items with anniversary year or date for him can be a special and memorable gift for him as well.

 

-Pretty handmade birthday cake!


It’s a classical way but how about making birthday cake by yourself? It can appeal your femininity.

“Handmade” can be avoided if you are close friends, but can be acceptable as an item to tell your true feeling. Even if you are not good at baking, the fact that you made it thinking about him is important.

If you fail a little, you can hide it with laughter because you are still just “friends”. While trying to hide your failure, show a bit of shyness in a quiet place and neatly give him a birthday gift.

He will be surprised to see that you are different from usual, and you can expect that he will be aware of your “femininity”. It is the best way to make a chance to be his girlfriend.

 

-Put him a scarf or a tie


Scarfs or ties which are put around neck is considered to have special meaning as a gift from woman to man. It seems popular and classical.

Therefore, make a difference by how you give it, and make him be conscious of your femininity. You might feel it a little awkward to do this to “ex-friend”, but it is effective! It is, to put a scarf or tie around his neck.

When you give him a gift, let him open it at once and say “I’ll put it for you!”, and get closer to him. His heart will be pounding with “unexpectedly close distance” between you and him.

Another point is to put it kindly, neatly and slowly. Let your special time be longer.

Ties especially make excellent gift for those who are devoted to work. If he is too busy working, such as the appointment to celebrate his birthday is between his work, it is more effective.

Deeply concentrated in work and being motivated means he has confidence. Appeal to his ego of “a capable man”.

 

-Use information only friends could know


A man recognizes a girl friend as “a woman” with a bithday gift with its content. Therefore choose proper gift that matches his hobby that only friends could know. Give it in slightly dismissive way. He will imagine that you’ve tried hard to choose it for him, and will be touched by the gap between your present attitude.

 

-Use items to appeal to his ego


The best gift is to make a person happy. It makes more difficult to choose a gift if you try to include your message in it.

Now, do you know what men are wanting for gift? Generally, it is said that “digital equipments” such as tablets, new smart phones or games are popular. So, is it right to just give one of them? No, you need to think more.

Because men want to see performances and functions of these equipments by themselves, study and compare, and buy them when they are finally satisfied. What they mean “want” includes such thoughts as well. This means however they “want” them, it is not a suitable gift from women.

Gifts from women that appeal to men’s ego are “things they don’t buy for themselves”.

With hobbies or other things, men are likely to be “concentrated on one point” and show no interests on things they don’t like, and never even think about trying to buy something besides their interests.

When men are given such unexpected thing, it means their blind spot was stimulated by others, feel that their unrecognized desire was filled, and their feelings are grabbed at once.

 

-Talking under interior light


You have probably been spending lively time together in drinking bars as friends, but this birthday is the special one. Why don’t you suggest to spend time together just two of you?

He should talk about variety of things under beautiful moonlight on a quiet birthday night. Turn off the light, lit the interior light you’ve chosen as a gift, and spend time calmly talking.

If you can have such chance, one of the popular gifts “candle light set” is recommended for his gift. Wavy flames will warm you from the bottom of your hearts.

If he is a romantic person and interested in candles already, choose candle stand. It is beautiful to light his favorite candle.

Recently, items to create good atmosphere without using fire are becoming popular as well. Faint light like an indirect illumination will warmly sorround the entire room.

Adding a warm light to an enjoyable night for two of you, with facing a chance finally, will make it a memorable experience.

 

-Appeal to fashionable mind of adult man


Childish and unreliable man suddenly becomes fashionable and becomes very attractive once he starts working. Haven’t you ever have such experience?

He might even change cigarette. If so, how about giving him some smoking items for his birthday?

Sophisticated Zippo or cigarette butt pouch to carry with cigarettes are very popular. Stylish cigarette ash tray for his house is recommended as well. Also, cigarette case to make his cigarettes stand out is good as well.

Just keep in mind that antismoking is becoming more popular recently, and many men don’t smoke or drink alcohol for their health. If a person you love is one of them, why don’t you select gift which would evoke “adult”, and include your message “you are a special person for me”.

 

Did you find it interesting? They were 7 recommended birthday gifts for your friend to become your boyfriend. Focus your effort into it, as it is very important event to change your relationship.

The gift itself is important, but could you understand that your feeling and the situation when giving the gift are important as well?

A person you have never thought as “a man”, and seen just as “a friend of an opposite gender” is now can be a boyfriend or your lifetime partner. It seems easy, but it really is very difficult to see him in that way.

Once you feel connected to each other and become partners, you already understand “who you/he really is”, so you don’t need to pretend yourself and can have natural relationship.

 

Summary

7 birthday gifts for boys for him to be your boyfriend

-Something memorial for 20th birthday
-Pretty handmade birthday cake!
-Put him a scarf or a tie
-Use information only friends could know
-Use items to appeal to his ego
-Talking under interior light
-Appeal to fashionable mind of adult man