7 common traps for those who think “I want a boyfriend”

7 common traps for those who think “I want a boyfriend”

The more you wish to have a boyfriend, the more you can’t in reality. This is because there are common traps that those who are looking for a boyfriend are likely to fall into. It can be said that the stronger you wish for a boyfriend, the more deeper you fall into traps and fail.

You are in a dangerous status when you start to think “I’m so longing for a boyfriend, why can’t I?”. You get even worse because you think so.

Therefore, in this article, I will tell you the common traps and important things to avoid them. I’ve selected 7 points, so please take a look. Now, let’s start.



7 common traps for those who think “I want a boyfriend”

 

-Limit making an appeal of yourself


It is natural that those who want a boyfriend want to have a boyfriend as soon as possible. There is no problem with it. It is often the case with those people to make too much appeal of themselves.

It is true that you need to market yourself to have a boyfriend, but too much of it is just too annoying for other people.

A woman making an appeal of herself to every opportunity…annoying just thinking about it, isn’t it? Things should be limited to moderate. Be careful when you try to make an appeal of yourself.

 

-Avoid sending messages continuously


Because they want “attention of men”, some women keep sending messages to men. This is popular among those who want a boyfriend as well, but it is one of a kind of women that men definitely want to avoid.

Most men don’t like sending and receiving messages. Women like lengthy phone calls and messages, but most men don’t. It may be acceptable if it is from a woman they like, but want to ignore if it is from a woman not of their interest.

Avoid sending continuously, especially demanding for answers. It is possible that you will never receive an answer from him.

 

-Control your romantic feeling


The third point is the control of your romantic feeling. Once you are interested in someone, you might can’t hold back your feeling.

It is important to tell your fee’ing of “love”, but it depends on the degree. Men keep distance from heavy emotions. I can understand that you want to tell your feeling as soon as possible, and want to go out with him, but you shouldn’t be rushed.

This is also a common trap for those who is looking for a boyfriend for a longtime, so please keep it in mind.

 

-Learn to wait


People who are impatient to have a boyfriend are overwhelmingly can’t “wait”. “Do your best and leave the rest.” The shortcut to success is to wait after doing what you could.

You fail because you are impatient for doing this and that. That’s why you are in a status of “want a boyfriend” for a long time. Keep an appropriate distance from a man of your interest, and learn to “wait”.

We want to run away from a person who comes after us, but we want to run after those who run away. Love is all about pushing and pulling. “Wait” sometimes and wait for his action.

 

-Ask to introduce a man only to whom you can trust


Those who want a boyfriend tend to ask to meet men whoever they can. Because they are too hasty, but it is a cause of mistake.

What you want is “a person you love”, and doesn’t mean any man is possible. If you just want someone to call “a boyfriend”, you don’t become impatient or think seriously about it.

Therefore, just ask someone you can trust to introduce someone to you. People who you don’t trust usually can’t have you meet a person of your interest.

 

-Avoid showing that you are looking for a boyfriend


Don’t show obviously that you want a boyfriend. Most men don’t favor aggressive women. If he thinks you like men, it is the end.

You can tell your friends that you love him, or ask someone you can trust to introduce some nice men to you. However, those who are putting out in front that they are “wanting a boyfriend”, are likely to be avoided.

Men will be attracted to you because you are acting moderately. This is another common mistake you are likely to make when you are impatient.

 

-Don’t give up in a halfway


Don’t compromise and think “I’ll just go out with him”. It is of course not good to chase too much of your desire, or aim too high.

However, giving up in a halfway is a cause of failure. You will break up with your partner soon and return to the same situation again. In addition, breaking up within short period of time will make you feel more impatient, and you will fall into a negative spiral.

Don’t compromise just because you’ve been wanting for a boyfriend for a long time. Calm down and seek for a best person for you.

 

Could you understand common traps for those who are looking for a boyfriend? You might have been doing some of them without notice.

You will feel impatient when you are without a boyfriend for a long time, but you can’t look around you when you are impatient. You might make some mistakes which you would never make if you have the luxury.

That’s why you need to calm down. As it is said “more haste, less speed”, you will have better results by acting calmly, instead of rushing.

Keep tips above in mind when making a challenge for your romantic relations, and you will sure to have a new boyfriend.

 

Summary

7 common traps for those who think “I want a boyfriend”

-Limit making an apeal of yourself
-Avoid sending messages continuously
-Control your romantic feeling
-Learn to wait
-Ask to introduce a man only to whom you can trust
-Avoid showing that you are looking for a boyfriend
-Don’t give up in a halfway