When you’re in love with someone, you wish to love and be loved forever, isn’t it? You’re in love and you think it lasts forever…but you somehow feel that his attention towards you is fading away…don’t you have such an experience?
Once you sense the sign of cheating, you become leery of him more and you can’t act normal to him. It’s not nice to have such a vicious circle and it might cause the bad end.
So you have to make an effort not to let your man to cheat on you. Then what you should be careful of…?
7 efforts to make to avoid a man who cheat
1.Don’t deny, just listen
Aren’t you denying what he says or his opinion unknowingly?
Man is a creature which you always have to praise. Before being in the relationship, you were always praising him but nowadays you might continue denying what he says. It makes him go to other women. Between men they never mourn to each other so they love the partner who always listen to them. So try to listen more accepting him. It’s out of the question that you always talk but not listen to him.
2.Keep the appearance of the early times
Everyone knows that the appearance is important. But the important thing is not to exceed his limit. There’s some factors like your body shape, the way you dress up or hair style etc, but you shouldn’t change too much compare to the beginning otherwise he might think you shouldn’t be like that. So at least keeping the beginning appearance decreases the possibility of cheating.
Even if he asks you for some changes, you should understand the line.
3.It’s better to release him sometimes
Sending him messages several times eveyday, Watching out his sns timelines or asking him what he is gonna do on the week-end…I know that you feel worried but he’ll be suffocated if you act like that.
It causes the opposite effect if you don’t let him breathe. More you constrain him, he will run away from you.
Don’t just ask him something like ¨Tell me what you did today!¨. It’s better to make him talk like, ¨You know what? Today I saw…..¨somthing like this.
4.Delicious meal always helps
It’s very traditional and common, but anyway it’s still very effective. Not only your cooking, but eating happily together is important.
Go to the restaurant where both of you like, enjoy your meals happily and decide where to go for the next time. When he’s eating happily, he’s feeling happy so it makes him to acknowledge that you’re the person he can be happy with.
If you hate cooking, then go to a lot of nice restaurants.
5.Be interested in what he likes
Do you really know what he likes or his hobby? Try to know what he likes to do on his week-end or in spare time. You don’t have to be very into it. Something similar in common makes your relationship deeper. It’d be great if you become addicted to his hobby. It’s not safe if he meets some women who is very keen to his hobby, so that it’s important that you know his favorites.
6.Have a day and night faces
Having a ¨gap¨is quite important in a relationship. But it’s doesn’t mean when you’re outside & at home. I’m talking about the gap when you’re in bed and daily life. You might get bored to be the same all the time, also him. So to make him enjoy another part of you, it’s better to have an another side in bed. Maybe he’ll be pleased to see you acting like an actress.
7.Smile is the strongest weapon
Before the relationship started, she was smiling all the time, but now…..many men are mourning like this.
One cheating man said that his girlfriend’s pure smile made him go back to her. It means the power of the smile is enormous.
Even if you’re pissed sometimes, but try to control yourself and keep smiling. That’s the trick to have a long lasting relationship
So, how was that?
People say men are the animals to cheat….but it’s not always true. But men can change depending of the attitudes of women. If you keep being unsatisfied or complaining to him, he’ll have less interest on you and may run away to other women whom he can have fun with. So try not to forget being thoughtful and build the forever lasting good relationship.
Summary
7 efforts to make to avoid a man who cheat
1.Don’t deny, just listen
2.Keep the appearances of the early times
3.It’s better to release him sometimes
4.Delicious meal always helps
5.Be interested in what he likes
6.Have a day and night faces
7.Smile is the strongest weapon