Cheating of men. It is an eternal enemy of women, and a matter we can’t understand. Men are said to born to cheat, but we can’t accept it!

There is an old topic of discussion “what is considered cheating?”, but there are no definite answers. It depends on people.

Now, why men cheat? Know their minds and avoid bad love, and find easier way to happiness!

 There are many types of cheating men.

As our personality differs for every person, there are many patterns for cheating men. Some can cheat without feeling guilty, while others can’t help cheating even they feel guilty. Here are some examples with their psychological patterns.

-Considering cheating as not bad

“Cheating is habitude of a man”, “can’t help it, it’s my instinct”, saying with a look of innocence. Because they think it is not bad, they get angry for our accusation. The most difficult type to understand and frustrating (of course, all types are not acceptable!).

-A result of going on the loose

When very busy person suddenly have his free time, he takes opportunity and enjoy too much.

-Consider not cheating, if not realized

The partner is of course important. However, want to have fun with other girls like having a second car. They are aware that the partner will be hurt if she realizes, so make best of an effort to hide it.

-Not considering as cheating

This type is bad. “I’m just dating with her and her. Cheating? You are not my partner, just dating, aren’t we?” He would say so naturally, and you would feel beyond anger and about to faint.

Now, if a person you love or your boyfriend is a cheating man, do you want to continue your love? Here are ways to “avoid bad love and be happy”. Be aware of following 7 points, develop discriminating taste, and become a woman with inner fortitude and be happy!

7 ways to know and avoid men who cheat

-Be confident

Aren’t you putting yourself down, because you are not confident? “He is going to date with a person like me…” “I’m not good enough…” Don’t think like this. If it is not easy to be confident right now, try to be in equal relation with him, at least with your emotion. Know that you should be confident for yourself.

Also, you don’t need to tell anyone but just in your mind, make a habit of praise yourself. “I have decided my outfit quicker than usual”, “I could greet properly”, “I didn’t stay up late” or anything small is good enough to give compliment for!

-Don’t overwork, don’t dedicate too much to him

Don’t you feel pleasure when working hard or dedicating to him? To work hard is of course not bad, but doing too much is a taboo in love. Men are more excited, by instinct, to “chase” or go after. When they are being chased, which means when they are dedicated by someone, they get wallowed in given love and get bored with it. As a result, working too much for him causes him to fall out of love with you.

Let me put this in easier example. If he injures just a little, instead of doing everything from giving medicines to taking to a hospital, just say “are you OK?” and give him a band-aid. Leaving him to a certain point is effective for cheating men.

-Complain

If you hide your pains and tiring things, they will be your stress and you will lose a sense of self-composure. You can’t be relaxed to deal with love. You will be swayed by every words and action of him and it will be a cause to become love addict.

You don’t need to complain to people. You can write down on paper or just talk to yourself. Let your stress out of your mind in any way. You can make a private account on Twitter as a dairy. Release your stress, and you can love someone with more latitude.

-Listen to others

If you doubt him, can’t totally trust him, but there is no evidence…if you doubt him cheating, consult to your friends or someone you can trust. You don’t need to follow their advices. Accept different points of view and use them as references to make decision. The biggest advantage of this is “you can organize your mind and see things objectively by talking to others”. Instead of wondering over and over, speak out loud and hear it from your own ears. It is simple and yet effective way to organize your emotion.

-Enjoy your hobby

“Have something you can be enthusiastic, besides love” is popularly said, but it is more difficult than you think. When you are in love with someone, you tend to think only about him and give your love only to him. Your full love makes him lose his sharpness and allow him to cheat.

When so, always look for something you can possibly enjoy as a hobby. It will make you less dependent of him, decreases your stress, and he will try to pull your attention and avoid him from cheating!

-See things objectively

This is a happy love. He won’t cheat! Believe in him blindly and be soaked in the happiness is of course what you want to enjoy with your love, but feeling only this is a sign of danger!

Have some time to think about your love objectively. You don’t need to wrap yourself up in suspicions. To have a real happy love, trust him subjectively is not enough. Once a month or maybe once a week, at your pace, think about your relationship with him and his actions with a view of a third person’s eye.

-Be sloppy!

Many of you can be lazy about cleaning up your room or cooking, but can’t cut corners on love, aren’t you? The point is not to be totally sloppy and lazy, but to know appropriate degree. If you are relaxed, you won’t be disturbed by his words or problems about love, and have strong attitude.

How was my advice? The minds of cheating men and view on love of women may not be understood each other. Please remember 7 points and avoid falling into bad love. I hope you can have true, happy love.

Summary

7 ways to know and avoid men who cheat 

-Be confident
-Don’t overwork, don’t dedicate too much to him
-Complain
-Listen to others
-Enjoy your hobby
-See things objectively
-Be sloppy!