It is natural to hope for your girlfriend to be cute forever. It is better if she maintains her cuteness without any words from you, but once your relations settle into a routine, she might start become lazy. For her to stay cute, you need to do something before she starts losing charm.
Once she loses it, it takes long time to get it back again.
Small efforts of a man can maintain her cuteness, but what should you do?
7 ways to keep your girlfriend cute
-Give her advices
Which action, when, or what kind of reaction you think is cute about her? Give her advices. If you just tell her “I want you to be cute”, she doesn’t know what kind of cuteness you want, and she would forget about it. Also complaining like “that’s why you are not cute!” or “you better do this than that!” can cause opposite effect.
Tell her in detail what you like about her such as “I like your smile when you look at me” or “your straight, smooth hair is beautiful”. She will stay cute for you.
-Give her a compliment
If you don’t praise her honestly, she will become self-indulgent and lose her cuteness. It is natural to lose motivations if a boyfriend doesn’t give compliments for cute actions or outfits.
You don’t need to say it in front of a crowd. Tell her “you look great” or stroke her head saying she is cute, when you are just two of you, she will keep making effort.
-Tell her “Thank you”
Once you become partners, maybe you get used to each other, and forget to say the most important word, “thank you”. As you say less of it, she will become the same. Everyone can feel happy to receive “thank you”. Because it is happy to be said “thank you”, we will make more effort to be appreciated more and more.
When your girlfriend is in a new outfit, tell her (possibly in a joking way) “You are wearing it for me? Thank you!” Even if she just bought it because she likes it, she would feel happy and keeps making effort to stay a cute girl.
-Stay cool
If you want your girlfriend to stay cute, you need to make some effort to be a cool guy also. Who would want to make an effort, when you are drinking beer with just underwear on? If you don’t know what is to be cool, ask her. Have you ever asked her “what do you like about me?” She might be a bit shy at first and wouldn’t say.
If she asks you why you ask it, it is best to answer “you’d hate me if I lose it”. She would promise to maintain her cuteness not to lose you.
-Keep an appropriate tension between her
As you are with your girlfriend for a long time, she will be like air. As you become so, many women are likely to lose charm. Before you were going out, you get dressed up, research in detail or made many efforts. Your girlfriend should have done the same, put on cute outfit, make lunch for you or other efforts. There was tension to be loved by a partner.
After you became a couple, introduce her to your friends or make some situation to keep tension. She would think she wants to be liked by your friends as your girlfriend, and stays cute.
-Take her to places she can be cute
Dating becomes lazy over time. If you date at home every time to save money, she would lose motivation to get dressed up or act cute. It is important to take her to a place she can be cute.
For example, go to a stylish bar instead of an ordinary drinking spot. Also, take her to see fireworks or “cat café”, where you can see her natural cuteness are recommended.
-Give her a present
For what she really wants, birthday or Christmas are the good time to give. However, give her small gifts, such as hair accessory, on an ordinary day, telling her “I thought it would fit you”.She will be happy and make effort to put on clothes and new hair arrangement that goes with the accessory.
If you think the way she eats a donut is cute, give her a donut. Make coffee together and look at her with a smile. She will show you a cute smile.
Did you like it?
You might have done some of them already, while others are a bit difficult for you. How about buying a cake on the way home from work, and visiting her tomorrow?
Start from giving her a compliment “you look cute”, as she eats a cake. She probably would recognize your purpose and try to be a cute girlfriend.
Summary
7 ways for your girlfriend to be “a cute girlfriend”
-Give her advices
-Give her a compliment
-Tell her “Thank you”
-Stay cool
-Keep an appropriate tension between her
-Take her to places she can be cute
-Give her a present