9 secrets how to get your ex back for the worrying

Don‘t be rush! Take time

If you still regret the loss of your boyfriend, you might want to take action soon. In the case, you should not be rush and stay calm. It will take time to get back together with your ex. You do not realize how important person he was until you broke up with him.

But taking too much time has adverse effect. You may think how should you do? In fact, it is said that 3to 6months would be the best for women to ask him to get back together.

By the way, a month would be the best for men. This is because men tend to increase their regret with time, on the contrary, women tend to easily forget their ex thinking their ex’s fault. Don’t you think there is wonder between men and women?

Don’t waste the time! No.1 analyze the situation

Well then, if you do not make effort to change yourself while curving your feeling, you would make the same mistake or even would not be able to stand on the starting line. Let me explain the reason clearly.

He broke up with you because he had not been satisfied with your personality or action and which led to the consequences. Of course, it depends on the situations. It is hard to tell you like hurting your broken heart but in the almost all of the cases this is the real.

However, if you can go through the step, you will find the way. First, consider carefully what he had complained about you. Did you become spoiled because of the long relationship with him? Were you selfish? Didn’t you ask him too much after he returned from work? There must be lots of causes.

Next, what did you hate to be done by him? Didn’t you endure the hard time too much while dating with him? You should also consider the bad points about him.

Let’s look back on the relationships with him. You will figure out why you want to get back together with him. For love or just persist? You should tell which one is the true.

Don’t waste the time! No.2. Try to increase yourself

How was your consideration? I guess you remembered many things about him. If you find out you still love him, want to improve your bad points, want to get back together with him, and male up your mind, it is time to go to the next step.

Don’t you think you want to become more attractive and see him amazed at you? Change your hair style? Changing your fashion? Having a diet? I’m not only talking about appearances.

You should improve your inside and get back him. Don’t you feel better and become active little? There are lots of things to do. You have no time to waste.

To have room in your heart! Don’t think too much.

Improving yourself, you should analyze how you looked while having had relationships with him. You can ask your friends how you looked, and which could make you realize what you do not realize.

Feeling is important but you should not be tied to your past. It is more important to have room in your heart and see things objectively to get back together. You should see a whole picture!

Is he truly appropriate for you? Why don’t you find another man?

If you are too desperate to get back together with your ex, he may think you are too heavy and he could get back together with you any time he wants. You should not implore his acceptance.

And then, you have improved your appearance and inside. So why don’t you find another man? Having dinner with someone or going out with someone like that. These things can recover your romantic ability.

You may unexpectedly find new world and meet with someone more attractive than your ex. If you are too pure to meet another man, you should think it like that.

Regardless of sex, just deepen the bond with people as a human. But there is one thing you must not do. You must not have sex easily. You should maintain a certain distance.

It may be too old expression though, “men turn into wolves”. Only you can defend yourself. As a woman, you should maintain a certain distance and have modesty.

Timing is important to send a mail for getting back together.

Didn’t you send long emails you had written it emotionally in the middle of the night?
You had better not stop doing like that because it leads to annoying his feelings.

As I mentioned in the article, you should take time between 3 and 6 months. And when time has come you should send a short email like “How have you been?” The event such as Christmas or his birthday is the good timing to send it.

Sending time is also important factor. Sending email at lunch break or after work is effective time rather than send it at midnight of his birthday.

It depends on cases, but almost all of people read it at least once when he receive it. If you will not receive his reply, he is too busy or don’t want to remember.

Even so, just start over and take time thinking it was too early to send emails. You should not take it seriously. Just think he has been busy all day like that.

To find out the situation of your ex for not being self-righteous

You should not to be self-righteous even if you want to get back together with him. It is important to know the situation of him. He might be too busy to think other things or he might have been going out with another girlfriend.

It is certain that you ask him to get back in vain when the timing is not appropriate. It depends on the situation of him. I understand your uneasy feeling but you should wait for the right time. If he has room in his heart, it is the right time.

Do you believe destiny or luck?

I cannot say destiny does not exist. But if you would wait for luck, it would be highly likely to waste your time. Only God knows whether you will meet with him or not though, it is you that create the opportunity.

To go to the place he might come like that, it is important “Man does what man can do then awaits the verdict of heaven or fate”. I said it many times, but don’t you think you want to support the woman who makes effort to find the ways rather than one just wait and do nothing but pray?

It also applies to the destiny. People who can make a great effort can get good luck. If you have men’s friend, you should ask him to help you.

This is because, if you asked woman’s friend to help you with the matter, she and your ex-boyfriend could get close each other and have relationships while talking. There is wonder between men and women. So you should be careful not to happen like that.

Are you ready to wish for his happiness no matter what waits you?

It would be happy ending if you could get back together. And it is the starting over. Congratulations! However, not all of them can get the happy end. so you should consider carefully before asking him to get back.

Can you wish for his happiness when you have made great effort but cannot make it?
If it would happen you should not hate him, should not wish for his bad luck, you should not think why I have encountered the hard time. If you think that way the consequence is certain to be bad.

Not let’s stop but must not! It is just persistent like a child is asking their mother to buy a toy weeping around. Can you be grateful for the days with your ex-boyfriend and wish for his happiness even if you could not make it and he had another girl friend?

If you can, it is the time to ask him. And you will become a wonderful woman. Lastly consider yourself alone in the quiet room.

How was that?

If you just remember the past in the room and wait, you will not get a good luck. You should be patient. Even if it would fail, you will be more attractive and have opportunities to meet with wonderful people.

Don’t be depressed thinking I’m not good. The hard time will be food for the future. And when you could make it and get back, it is just beginning.

You would end up breaking up with him if you forgot the feeling. It is you and him who deepen the bond. It is neither only you nor only him. I wish for your happy life!

Summary

9secrets how to get back together with your ex for the worrying

Don‘t be rush! Take time
Don’t waste the time! No.1 analyze the situation
Don’t waste the time! No.2. Try to increase yourself
To have room in your heart! Don’t think too much.
Is he truly appropriate for you? Why don’t you find another man?
Timing is important to send a mail for getting back together.
To find out the situation of your ex for not being self-righteous
Do you believe destiny or luck?
Are you ready to wish for his happiness no matter what waits you?