Some people love themselves while others hate. How about you? If you don’t like yourself, why don’t you love you? Those who can love themselves can love others as well. People who hate themselves look at bad points of others and talk bad about them.
If you love you and people around you, the world around you will look different. Here are 5 ways to love yourself. Please get some ideas. Everyone have a charm. Find your charm by yourself.
5 ways to love yourself – heart&conscious
-Have easy goals to accomplish
People who don’t like themselves have high goals. To have a high goal is a good thing, but you will get frustrated if you can’t achieve it. “Why can’t I do it?” “Because I’m no good.” Aren’t you setting your goal too high? If so, set easy goals to accomplish. They can be anything, but should be something you can do for sure.
For example, how about greeting people in a morning? It can be your family or colleagues, so easy to do. You may be are already doing, but set it as a goal again and do it. You can feel a sense of satisfaction by achieving a goal. It is important to achieve, no matter how small a goal is. Continue this everyday. Set a new goal and achieve. By continuing, you’ll love yourself. You hate yourself by failure, and love by accomplishment. Easy thing. Let’s start from now.
-Refresh mind and think back to bad thing again
When we face bad thing, we think about it forever or try to forget about it. It is not good to linger a failure, but it’s also not good to force to forget. You think you forgot but the thing is not resolved. You’ll recall it sometime again in a future. Don’t you sometimes remember bad memories of the past? You feel inexpressible emotion every time you recall your memories.
To avoid it, think back to bad thing. Why did it happen, what did you think and do, if you made a mistake what was it, or how you could prevent it. You can forget about it on a day it happened, but think about it few days later. As you solve your problem earlier, you can feel refreshed and be confident. One of the ways to like yourself is to admit even a failure.
-Play sports and shed sweat
Do you exercise usually? Or just going back and forth between office and home? You can’t get rid of woolly-mind if you don’t move your body. You would think about bad things and eventually hate yourself. To switch your mind, play sports. If possible, do something you can enjoy with several people. Easy thing such as walking is also good. Our body and mind are connected, so move body and heal mind.
-Practice smiling in front of a mirror
Do you look into a mirror everyday? We somehow have angry or unhappy face if we don’t look a mirror. This is because our conscious of being looked decreases and results in bad expression of a face. On the other hand, people who are often looked by others at work become more and more beautiful because they are conscious of eyes of others. They are thinking about how people look at them and how they want to be looked. Therefore, look into a mirror everyday and smile. Just by practicing smile, you can feel charm from you and attracted to you. When you enjoy looking at a mirror, that’s when you love yourself.
-Spend time with attractive people
What kind of people do you think are attractive? If such people are around you, spend some time with them. By being with attractive people and sharing same atmosphere, your mind thinks you are also attractive. Our heart and consciousness are connected, so what you feel change your conscious. You will feel you are attractive as well. Also, if you are not attractive as you think, why attractive people would spend time with you? You are just underestimating and you are already attractive as you are. To have yourself recognize so, please take an action.
Did you like it?
People who don’t like themselves are mostly underestimating or have ideals too high. We are not so perfect. Your instinct feels you are beautiful, but you are maybe hard headed and thinking you are no good.
Why don’t you change by 5 methods I introduced today? A person who likes him/herself is more attractive than who hate. If you like yourself, more attractive people will gather around you and your life will be brighter. Feel with heart, be conscious, know your charm, and love yourself.
Summary
5 ways to love yourself – heart&conscious
-Have easy goals to accomplish
-Refresh mind and think back to bad thing again
-Play sports and shed sweat
-Practice smiling in front of a mirror
-Spend time with attractive people