In the past, I introduced the ¨Psychological techniques to be able to love each other¨.
After posting that article, I’ve got a lot of inquiries from the readers asking how to make the stronger effects.
So this time is the advanced version. I’m gonna talk about more effective points. I listed up 7 tips so please try from the easy one.
7 tips to love each other – Advanced
1.Find the common things between you & him
Aren’t you forcing yourself to adjust to him just because you wanna love each other with him?
You and him are totally different people. Even the gender is different, so it’s normal to be different. He will find out if you’re forcing yourself. You don’t need to lie to yourself. Just observe him and try to enjoy finding the common part in him.
2.Easy and effective! Favorite food
It’s the best topic to talk about your likes and dislikes about the food.
You can talk about it innoculously plus this topic is easy to break the ice.
There’s a famous proverb: The way to a man’s heart is through his stomach.If you’re good in cooking, you might easily get his heart. And if you two like the same kind of food, you should tell him that you wanna try it so that he’ll ask you out.
Don’t play game with him, just set the date. Don’t forget to tell him that it’s delicious when you eat the dish.
3.Do the opposite gesture
Try to do opposite what he does conciously. For instance, if he crosses his legs, you should stretch yours. If he lean his neck on the right, you should do on the left. It’s reported that it’s effective to do something opposite of what he does.
4.Just be happy when you find something in common between you and him
Just tell hime that you’re happy to find something in common. For example: ¨I like that too! We are the same(smile)!¨or Ï feel happy to find something in common¨. He’ll find you very adorable for being so honest and lovely.
5.Be exaggerated sometimes
When you find something in common, react quite exaggerately. ¨Really!? I’m the same! It might be a destiny!¨or ¨This is first time for me to see that someone like this!¨. Try to be impressive for him.
But if you do it too much, the effect will be less so do it when you’re really surprised or when you notice that it’s the best time to do it.
6.Involve the third person
If you have a person to help you, that’ll be nice.
For example, make this third person say something like ¨You and her are so similar¨or ¨You two are doing the exact same gesture when you talk!¨etc.
So that he’ll start thinking about you. When you copy his gesture on purpose all the time, people around you might start saying that you and him are having the similar atmosphere.
7.Experience together somthing unusual
What I want you to try is to experience something unusual.
For instance, hiking, camping or scuba diving etc. By doing it together, the distance between you and him is gonna be much closer. There’s a proof that people fall in love easily under thrilling or dangerous circumstances.
Well then you must use this method. If it’s winter, do the snowboarding .
If it’s summer, go to surf. Enjoy together something he prefers so that you can ask him to teach you. It must be effective to shorten the distance.
So, how was that?
Start doing which you think you can do it. You don’t have to hurry. The effect is gonna be stronger and stronger by doing these tips unconciously. Just continue doing them so that he’ll come toward you little by little.
Summary
7 tips to love each other – Advanced
1.Find the common things between you & him
2.Easy and effective! Favorite food
3.Do the opposite gesture
4.Just be happy when you find something in common between you and him
5.Be exaggerated sometimes
6.Involve the third person
7.Experience together somthing unusual