Had quarrels or made your partner angry..there are many reasons, and couples do break up with lingering affection. Why don’t you make it a chance instead? Those who once broke up and rekindled their relation are likely to be together for a long time or eventually get married.
Relationship can be rekindled because you are tied strongly with invisible string. The important thing is that both of you are still having affection to each other. To exploit an opportunity, it is important for you to become “a person who feel cozy to be with”.
Therefore, you need to apologize when you are bad, or you still need to look back to yourself and step back even if it is your partner’s fault. Otherwise, your relationship won’t turn out well anyway.
Here are some tricks, but things will turn out well if you have kindness, and your relation will become a true one, not just techniques. So, please step forward.
7 ways for opportunities to rekindle relation for marriage
-Make good use of rumors through friends
It is uncomfortable to meet after breaking up. You might suddenly feel like meeting or thinking about your ex-boyfriend. An opportunity is not difficult. Rumor by friends is very important, and if he hears something about you from them, he will recall your memory of being together with him.
Therefore, ask good friends of yours. Have them talk about you just to a certain extent, and not being so serious, like “she still seems feeling down without a new boyfriend” or “I heard her saying there are no better men than him”. Ask them to spread good rumors.
If he concerns about you, he will contact you, which means he doesn’t have anybody better than you.
-Happen to meet
If you know his behavior patterns, you can pretend it as “an accident” and happen to meet him. By actually meeting, you can appeal to his sight and can expect him to think back to when you were going out together. You should be careful with how you look.
He will assume you are happy if you become extremely beautiful, and of course he won’t love you if you are not looking good at all. Select clothes of the best time you spent together. When you see him, just greet him and never ask him out. He will recognize that you were waiting, and it will lower his favorability toward you at once.
-Change email address
This is the only way you can email him. Sending a letter when you move to a new house is effective as well, but you can’t move just because of that. Informing your new email address is natural, and the best way to make him recall about you.
Here, you also should not ask him out. Just say “how are you?” and other diplomatic greetings. If he replies, you can expect more.
-Wrong number
Just as it is, call him pretending you had a wrong number. You can leave your number on his list of received calls, but he might not call you back. So, make sure at least have him hear your voice. Say “sorry, I had a wrong number” and hang up if the conversation doesn’t continue. If he feels something when hearing your voice, he will sure to call you back for rekindle relation.
-Use SNS
To appeal your presence subtly, gradually make communication through SNSs such as facebook or twitter. Reacting to all of his actions make you like a stalkerish person, so keep retweeting and “likes” to a minimum.
Of course, you shouldn’t talk about him on SNSs. Be reserved about what your mutual friends say. He will notice you and lead to an opportunity. Just be careful that this technique is gradually effective day by day, so recommended for those who need some time to cool down.
-Make a wish
A man would feel enthusiastic when he is relied, or someone can’t live without him. The feeling that “I’m the only person to help them” appeals to his man’s emotion. Can you think of anything that you can ask only to him, or he is the only person who can do?
If so, ask him for help with that, saying you are having problems. You can consult him for something as well. Men can’t say no when they are relied. What is more, he will have a feeling that he needs to protect you, which will lead to an opportunity for rekindle relationship.
-Celebrate an anniversary
“Happy birthday” if it is his birthday, “today is the day of XXX”, if it is the anniversary of two of you. Say “I feel like meeting you”, then quickly douse your words. This is the point.
By doing so, his expectation is rejected at once, and feel the urge to see you. It is the opposite effect to talk for a long time, so hang up the phone if you want some opportunity. If he calls you back, you are successful.
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Avoid hasty action if he is seriously furious, and apologize in all sincerity before thinking about an opportunity. Time is the best medicine to forget, so it is important to have some time to cool down. After a month, start taking an action. It will become more difficult to rekindle your relation if you take long time, or you both might be attracted to other person.
Summary
7 ways for opportunities to rekindle relation for marriage
-Make good use of rumors through friends
-Happen to meet
-Change email address
-Wrong number
-Use SNS
-Make a wish
-Celebrate an anniversary