Just thinking “I want a girlfriend” won’t make it come true. You need to prepare and wait for a chance. Today, I will introduce some ways you can do everyday to polish yourself to be an attractive man.
There are only few people who are actually trying hard to be a better man, while hoping to have a girlfriend. There’s no wonder that less people have partners. There are less attractive men.
In recent society, not only women are asked to polish themselves, but men also should do the same. Men can work hard to be popular among women, so once you know how, it is easy to do.
7 ways to polish yourself, if you want a girlfriend
-Concentrate on work
First of all, you should concentrate on your work. From ancient times, the most important thing for men is to secure foods. Maintaining a family was a task for men. Therefore, men who can have more foods were popular among women back then.
This basic is the same now. Men and women are equal in recent society now, but our nature can’t change easily. Women are attracted to skillful men by instinct. If you want a girlfriend, start from working hard everyday.
-Try to improve your skill
It is related to the first tip, that improving your skill is another possibility. It is needed to succeed in your work. Highly-skilled person can succeed more.
As a result, you can be a skillful man and can attract many women’s attention. Make good use of your time such as during commuting time everyday, in work break, or before going to bed, to improve your skill.
-Polish your permissivity
It is again related to other tips above, but polish your permissivity. Men who can tolerate more things are popular among women. It is of course because they can accept everything about us.
In addition, this permissivity means he has leeway. You can’t have one if you don’t have latitude in your life. If you feel too much with your work, you become intolerant. Therefore, you first need to concentrate on your work, polish your skill, and try to learn permissivity.
-Learn to cook
Men and women are becoming more equal these days, but set of values for some men are not updated. Not only their values, but more people are behind with their skills. One of them is cooking. Don’t you still think that cooking is a job for women?
Unfortunately, it is an old set of value, so please get rid of it at once. Cooking can be done by anybody if you try. We eat everyday, so you can practice cooking everyday. I strongly recommend you to start cooking from today.
-Learn housework skill
Along with cooking, other houseworks are important as well. Especially these days, many women are working and there are many double income families. Men need to learn houseworks as well.
However, in reality, many men still have old set of value that housework skills of men are low. If you want a girlfriend, learn them from now. Your skill will sure to attract women.
-Get in shape
“Herbivore men” is becoming a popular word recently, but “cheetah men” are always popular among women. It is difficult to change your internal aspects at once, but try to change how you look. Skinny men can’t be popular.
The body in shape is a weapon for men. Make it a habit to train your muscle if you want to have a girlfriend. As your looks change, your inner aspect will naturally change along with it as well. You will be talked more from women.
-Polish your DIY skill
The last is the DIY skill. You don’t need to make warehouse or a chest, but you might want to be able to assemble easy furnitures together. I heard that there are some herbivore men who can’t even change a single light bulb.
It is difficult for them to attract women. You won’t lose anything by learning DIY as a minimum skill for men. Even more, if you want a girlfriend. There will be a time when you can use your skill.
Did you find it interesting? I hope you could understand some points you should learn if you want a girlfriend. There are many people who try to achieve something without making any effort. The world has become too convenient that we can do everything with just flipping a switch.
We can’t avoid being lazy, but if you are facing with human, or women in this case, you can’t acquire anything without preparation. You should at least do things I’ve mentioned above everyday.
As you can see, they are not so difficult to do. You can have a big return with small effort. With little effort and continuing everyday will make your wish to have a girlfriend come true.
Summary
7 ways to polish yourself, if you want a girlfriend
-Concentrate on work
-Try to improve your skill
-Polish your permissivity
-Learn to cook
-Learn housework skill
-Get in shape
-Polish your DIY skill