You feel loneliness of the bachelorhood even if you think that to be alone is comfortable but solitude. When you begin to think you want a girlfriend, you may not be able to have a girlfriend strangely.

The feeling that you want a girlfriend grows bigger because you have encounter in itself but cannot develop into acquaintance even if there is the encounter and you want a girlfriend as soon as possible. Then the feeling that is not a daily one is appearing, and there is not a usual way of thinking, becoming hard to advance forward all the more.

You should be careful not to let you fall into such a vicious circle, and your period without a girlfriend prolong.

7 possible vicious circles to want a girlfriend

Don’t do too much for the person who want to be your girlfriend

When you do everything for the female who want to be your girlfriend simply because you want her to be in favor with you, you are in danger of being seen only as a merely convenient man.

Each other’s relations may collapse without continuing a posture to make you’re your acquaintance begins because the feeling of the desperate time thinking, “I want to drop it” is not a so prolonged thing.
If you find the favorite woman, deal with her in your natural way.

Calm down not to see a fret

When the feeling that she wants is too strong, you seem to desperately want her in conversation and an action.

When you act as if desperately loved her, the woman has aversion and may leave you, because the woman is sensitive to the feeling of the partner.

As an appeal of the manliness, calm down; behave in a gentlemanly way. Never fail to be kind to her, because being cool-headed and composure is different.

Prevent you from becoming a clown

It may be said that an interesting man is popular, but results in a disappointing case when you get a wrong fun.

The heart that wants to please a partner may be the same, but when it becomes masochistic and takes the laughter while looking down on another person, you are recognized as just an unpleasant person, and you are to be a setoff of the other man.

In addition, there is the man running for an act to be outstanding out of a feeling to be paid attention to yourself too much, but be careful not to become too much egocentric.

Be careful about failure of “number beat tactics”

When you approach as many people as possible because to target only one person is insufficient, you should understand that the world is smaller than you think.

The feeling that she wants jumps ahead, and the connection between women is found in the one end in an unexpected place when you appeal, and the label of a good person of the condition is put on by the woman of several joint parties and acquaintances.

I recommend you to approach the only aimed person in order to avoid an unnecessary trouble.

Prevent you from escaping for the meeting with “only men” too much

Because you want a girlfriend but it is hard to get her, don’t opportunities to gather only in congenial boyfriends increase?

Because a tempo and the topic of the story are easy to match when you gather between the same sex, carefreeness is comfortable. However, you tend to forget how to get along and the sense of distance with the woman when you have much time only with men because it is comfortable and want is worse, you may lose the relation with the woman.

Make an opportunity to talk with a woman regularly if you think that you want a girlfriend.

Control the coward feeling moderately

The acquaintance with the woman does not readily reach well and you cannot step forward for fear of one step to next because of a trauma of parting with former girlfriend. However, you cannot have a girlfriend forever when you stumble there.

Even if it is scary to have failed before, the new partner accept it and for her it would rather be the desirable matter.

It is not to become reckless, but don’t keep the coward feeling too much, and have courage to go forward.

Don’t make a gloomy face

When everything is going well, you don’t have courage, and you have a gloomy feeling, you are apt to look depressed.

But, is the woman who look down and gloomy appealing? You have a positive feeling about the person who looks forward and smiles a lot. The partner watching you has the same feeling. Smile in public simply because it is now when you want a girlfriend.

In the morning and evening, smile in front of a mirror. The future girlfriend should like your smile most, too.

How do you feel about them? You feel quite long and painful during the time when you want a girlfriend but cannot get her. However, it is important to raise yourself not to fall into a negative spiral at such time.

It becomes hard and rebukes it even if you do more than you can do to appeal her, and it does not continue, and it becomes troublesome later. Actually the situation is not so bad as you think. Because an imagination recalls negative feelings and causes a vicious circle, be relaxed without being deep, and brooding.

The man having a broad mind look attractive to the woman.

Summary

7 possible vicious circles to want a girlfriend

Don’t do too much for the person who want to be your girlfriend
Calm down not to see a fret
Prevent you from becoming a clown
Be careful about failure of “number beat tactics”
Prevent you from escaping for the meeting with “only men” too much
Control the coward feeling moderately
Don’t make a gloomy face