Many people are distressed for not having a girlfriend even though they want. In reality, most of them don’t know what to do when they think they “want a girlfriend”.
“What is needed to have a girlfriend?” “What should I do first?” More you think, more you are troubled.
So today, I will explain what you should do to improve yourself when you think you “want a girlfriend”. The more you try hard, the more you shine. Therefore, it is necessary to improve yourself to have a girlfriend.
If you are struggling to have a girlfriend, please read this article. Now, let’s get started.
Must do when you “want a girlfriend”
-Cleanliness
As it is said that “90% of the person is shown in how they look”, appearance is important. However, what I say “appearance” here is not what you are born with. It is of course about what you can improve by your effort.
“Cleanliness” is especially important. What women hate the most is unclean people. I can even say they “detest” them. It is meaningless to make effort in other parts, if you are denied by how you look.
Do normal and easy things such as “fix hair” “don’t grow untidy beard” or “dress nicely”, if you think you want a girlfriend.
-Get in shape
This is related to appearance as well. Get in shape, if you want a girlfriend. Do you think women like gangly, whishy-washy man? I don’t think so.
Women are attracted to masculine, well-toned body. I’m not saying that you should be pumped up like a body-builder.
I’m just suggesting that you should get in shape. You can make effort everyday for muscle training, if it is to have a girlfriend.
-Education
Now let’s start talking about content of your character. Education, to begin with. Unfortunately, people with low educational level are not attractive to women.
All through the ages, women are attracted to intelligent people. Please don’t take it wrong, though. What I’m talking about here is not what you learn in school, nor about education at the level of university professor.
Basic knowledge for adult men is enough. To have a girlfriend, be an educated person by making a habit of reading or other things.
-Be decisive
One of the important element women seek for men is the ability to make decisions. It is natural that indecisive man who can’t decide anything is not popular. Even men would feel frustrated at such person.
It is even worse to the eyes of opposite sex. Indecisive person can’t become their interest of love. You don’t need to think too serious about this though, because it can be improved by training.
Practice to make a quick decision on a routine basis. Start with easy things such as “deciding the menu quickly”.
-Expansivity
This is another factor women seek for men. Women strongly hope that you “accept who she is” and she wants to be “who she is”.
To respond to this, is what men should do. Prepare to be capable of listening to 1 or 2 selfish requests of women.
If you want a girlfriend, don’t ever be intolerant and short-tempered person.
-Conversation skills
Men who never talk about anything interesting can’t be popular. They are not enjoyable to be with. As a part of improving yourself, you should train conversation skills.
Those who are not good at talking definitely lack effort greatly, because this is not what you are born with. If you hesitate to talk, practice talking in front of a mirror.
You will be surprised by its effect by continue practicing everyday. It might be a bit embarrassing at first, but no one is watching. Don’t worry. You will get used to it soon.
-Cooking
The last thing is to learn cooking. Evaluations for men who can cook are extremely high. If you have old thoughts that “men should stay away from kitchen”, leave that thought at once.
It is the age of gender equality. Women never pay attention to men who hold old way of thinking. What is more, those who can cook are attractive.
Like other advice above, you don’t need to cook like a chef. Just an easy cooking will be highly evaluated. This is men’s cooking. Investment effect is high, so worth trying it.
Could you find good advice? I hope you could learn what to improve when you think you “want a girlfriend”. They were much easier than you’ve expected, weren’t they?
Many people are taking it wrong that whether being “a popular person or not” is what you are born with, but you can change it greatly by making effort everyday as I mentioned above.
Actually, some men are popular among women even though they are not the best looking men. You will understand it by just looking around you.
Therefore, it is possible for you to be a popular man among women by just paying attention to the points I explained above. Make effort everyday, and your wish to have a girlfriend will come true soon.
Summary
Must do when you “want a girlfriend”
-Cleanliness
-Get in shape
-Education
-Be decisive
-Expansivity
-Conversation skills
-Cooking